Often accompanied by such reminders bickering and arguments. But they do not arise from the fact that your baby is growing "stubborn donkey," and because of bickering and unnecessary arguments are the hallmark of this age. The whole problem is the difference between an adult and a child look at what is happening. Adults are able to compare the act itself and its consequences, as small children are living one day. That is because of a misunderstanding of the entire global problem and there are unnecessary talk. Although this does not prevent her five years with pleasure to help parents in most of their endeavors.
Raising a child 5 years of age must be tailored to suit the child's behavior in the group. At this age should already be laid the foundation of child behavior in the society. Currently, his company is a family, a small group of friends and Sadikovskaya-peers in the yard. He should not be afraid to make contact, to know how to ask, thank you, to be able to share and share toys with their peers. That is what is called the communication skills for his age.
Some children at this age have a certain aggression to others. Please consider this and try to find the cause of aggression in children. You need to convince a child that fighting is bad. Although this question is not can relate to the episode, when you need to fight back. Ability to strike back is very important especially for the boys, which is usually expected in the future, specific explanation of the relationship between them.
Raising a child 5 years old rarely goes without punishment. The physical and psychological impact on the child is considered unacceptable in society, but no one has yet proposed a universal operating alternatives. In this regard, it is important to punish the child. Absolutely can not punish a child for the slightest prank. He needs to explain, and sometimes more than once, that his action hurt people or can have bad consequences. After only a few explanations can punish a child.
Punishment itself may be physical or psychological. Include the psychological reluctance to communicate with the child when he turned to him. This behavior can be explained by his words "you did not listen, why do I have to listen to you? '. Normally it is very good and helps the child himself seek to make contact. The second version of psychological punishment may be to limit TV watching or playing on the computer. The physical punishments may include restrictions on freedom of the child (camp-angle) or corporal punishment (belt). The latter is the most extreme form, which can be used very rarely.
Sometimes spoiled child behavior due to his fatigue and distracted attention. In this case you need to review the child mode and give him more time to rest.
Raising a child 5 years old will not produce positive results, if the punishment is inadequate action or the process of punishment is wrong. Do not delay punishment. The child quickly forgets his actions and then does not understand why he was punished. Do not throw around empty threats, or soon your child will perceive the threat of punishment is an empty phrase.
Often children are punished for lying. But sometimes parents are wrong in this matter. Having a developed imagination, children can sometimes be forgotten and give fantasy a reality. Adults who are under the challenges relate to the mundane life, it is sometimes difficult to see the children. Do not tell your child that he is lying, tell him that he comes up with, or dreams. If the kid really is cheating on purpose, then try to understand his example to explain the consequences of lies.
Parenting 5 letVospitanie child 5 years can not be imagined without the incentives. This may be simple words of praise, and there may be a variety of gifts for good behavior. We do not recommend that children under the age of luxury gifts. They are happy to paint, sculpt, paint, build various crafts from the designer. There was great interest in simple board games or simple puzzles. Puzzles are good that the whole family can unite around a single picture.
A similar situation occurs at the family dinner or while guests arrive. And your child is wedged into the conversation from a lack of education, and the desire to engage in dialogue on an equal basis with everyone else. Your child to strive to be a full member of society. To encourage him, encourage your child to express their views on any issue. The more that the child at this age already knows a lot of information, including poems, stories, etc
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