And he is already 11 years old. What's going on with your child during this period. Boys develop slower girls. They grow by only two to three centimeters a year. The girls in this sense, more bright. Weight gain occurs, the spine begins to be fixed. Ten years is the period when baby teeth to permanent change, so you should monitor caries.
At eleven, the process of sexual maturation. Begins puberty. Larynx boys growing and changing. Girls also are gradually getting girls. In terms of the nervous system are dramatic changes. Begins puberty, which is associated with various problems. Misunderstanding parents, their own interests, the personality. And it's important not to miss this moment. What's going on in the minds of these children? Let's try to penetrate into the essence of things.
At this age, your child have an urge to exercise autonomy. Necessary at this stage to consider this and give the child to understand its importance. He must understand that he is old enough to have their cases and take responsibility for actions. The child is now more than ever need your help. He student and teach him to properly allocate time for study and recreation. Instill even in this age of the rules of discipline and routine. No need to impose strict opinion. Then, as you can imagine life could be mistaken for a young man. The best option - let the child to solve the question of planning the day. You need only give the basics, and then he can handle himself.
Aim, let the responsible mission or two. This could be cleaning the house or help anything. So the child will develop a sense of responsibility and a foothold. You should not go for a child and always correct, follow every step. So you only make things worse. It is better to give the child more freedom, answering questions, if there are difficulties, and directing as needed. So you will strengthen the trust between you.
Many parents make a simple mistake. They try to impose their will and force the child to do things the way they understand it. Of course, this serves only good intentions, only the method chosen is not correct. Suggests, but does not specify. Give your child a reason alone to come to the correct conclusion. Make it so that he wanted to do something, and get results that exceed any expectations. A child will know that he is an independent, responsible, and can decide. This will keep in mind that whenever the need or difficulty to you can ask for advice.
At age 11, the child begins the formation of character, which will be the basis of his personality for life. Manifestations of new feelings, emotions and desires. It all starts at this age. Trust your child and he will trust you!
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