Monday, March 11, 2013

Воспитание ребенка 12 лет

12 years is a very good age for education. Children are balanced and fairly openly communicate. Entrust their secrets to adults and jute help and support.
But gradually enter into life peers. Start forming a team. And because the energy in the child at this age is quite natural to expect a lot of increased activity, creativity, commitment to creativity. In general, start clarifying areas of interest and a light touch to the permissible limits.
Children should not be limited to the 12 years of the school curriculum. During this period, he sided curiosity. Does not matter if he does not bring cases before the end of the half. World studied superficially, as if trying to taste all the dishes.
That the house was an atmosphere of love, despite the mood swings growing person - follow some rules:
1. Minor aggression best ignored. If the film is shown in the acceptable range is better to show that you understand his feelings. "I understand you are now very upset," or "You're angry because they do not get enough sleep."
2. Razgranichte behavior and personality. Evaluate his behavior here and now, not in general. Otherwise, he will feel an injustice to himself. After all, if a child behaves badly - it does not mean it's bad.
3. In general, the education of the child 12 years depends on its reputation in the eyes of other people. Do not humiliate publicly. Minimize the guilt of the child. "I know you did not mean to offend him." No need to complete submission, let him in their own way to fulfill the requirement adult, agree to a compromise.
Often adults say how not to villages, and forget to explain why. What are the consequences of waiting for the child if he would do as he wants? And, finally, how to do it right? Communicate and do it openly. And most importantly, had a great love!

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