Education

Adults often underestimate the complexity, contradiction, and the importance of thirteen abroad, which comes to a child with an impressive luggage of the knowledge and sometimes far from children's issues. And it's not so much a physiological transformation taking place in the child's body, but in the beginning of understanding and comprehension of the truth, the truth, to find that beats all mankind since time immemorial.
Raising a child 13 years even under the most favorable circumstances, when parents and children dominates trust and understanding, the process is very difficult and dangerous for both parties. Old enough to commit an act contrary to the beliefs and understanding of the child, the foundation of trust can date a serious crack "repair" which sometimes is not possible.
In 13 years, people began to notice that until now just escaped his attention - injustice, flattery, hypocrisy - almost all human vices suddenly pop out, forcing the child to rethink all that before this is for him value. And here it is very important that the adults were not included in this list, which requires re-evaluation, and that requires a little bit - just be very frank and honest, not only the child, but also to himself. We must not forget that the education of the child is 13 years primarily by example, in this age, children do not blindly inherit the parents' behavior as it occurs at a younger age, and give every action, every word of his own, the only true definition, which in subsequently converted to the belief and becomes the pivot, the basis of all future life. In addition, at this age, the child begins to notice the game, hidden motives and reasons for every action of parents, analyze results and make conclusions for themselves - what can and can afford to take on arms, but that does not bring the desired benefits and therefore not worthy of his attention